That somebody was also right, because the reality is that at one point or another everyone has to sell something.

Whether it’s convincing an employer that you’re the right person for the job, or getting your significant other to agree on what to get for dinner, you can apply selling to some extent in many aspects of your life.

Selling is one of the social skills we all need to go through life. 

But just because everyone sells doesn’t mean that everyone is a salesman.

When selling is how you bring food to your table, getting better at selling is not just a good idea, it’s a necessity. In this article, we’ll explore three strategies that can help you become a better salesman.

The Anatomy of the Perfect Salesman

If we want to get better, we need to start off by knowing what best looks like. Defining what makes the perfect salesman is the first step. 

The perfect salesman is who is capable of getting the most amount of sales given the amount of opportunities that are presented to them.

It’s about being effective.

how to be a good salesman

Studies have shown that salesmen who burn through leads are actually doing more harm than salesmen who don’t sell. So making the most out of every lead you have contact with is of utmost importance.

Now that we have defined what the perfect salesman does, we need to break down how they get it done. And to do this we’ll reference the four main areas that a highly effective salesman must develop. In no particular order, these are: 

  1. Listening and empathy. This will be your ability to understand not only what your prospects are saying, but also their situation from their point of view.
  2. Communicating. We’ll define this as the ability to articulate your thoughts, and have  the desired effect on your audience and prospects.
  3. Motivation and drive. You have to deal with a lot of no’s along your way to a yes. Dealing with rejection and still moving forward is where motivation and drive comes in. 

The Importance of Strategy

At the core of becoming a better salesman, or for that matter, better at anything is how we approach the task of improving.

The how makes all the difference. Why? Limitations. We all have limitations which we need to manage. Whether it’s time, money, or some other resource, we must pick and choose the path we’re going to follow in our journey to becoming a better salesman.

This is why having a strategy in place for improving as a salesman becomes critical. It will prevent us from simply following random tips and tricks that, although useful, simply won’t make the desired impact in our skill set.

Also, analysis paralysis. With so much information out there, we can often find ourselves spending our time thinking—that is, procrastinating—instead of doing. A clear strategy will help you save your precious mental bandwidth for what really matters.

Strategy 1: Improving Your Listening and Empathy Skills

Selling isn’t about you, it’s about your prospect. It’s about how they see things, it’s about how they feel. And if you don’t learn how to tune into that, then you’ll be less effective at selling.

Understanding someone else’s point of view doesn’t necessarily mean you have to agree with them. Rather, you must look at this set of skills as a means to gauge or get an accurate read on what will be best to do and say next in order to help drive your prospect closer to the purchasing decision.

Here are two strategies you can follow to improve your listening and empathy skills.

Ask clarifying questions

Curiosity is a skill that will allow you to get profound insight into what makes your prospects tick. Problem is, we usually get caught up in what we want to get from the conversation so we end up not asking questions and losing connection with them.

What to do? Practice asking real, genuine questions with everyone around you. Family, friends, and if possible, find a place where you can meet people and ask away. Also, make sure you really listen and ask follow‑up questions.

Read a book

In particular, get a fiction book. Why? Because literary fiction is great at getting you into the mind of a character. And this is a way great to practice empathy. So if you can start seeing things the way the book’s character sees them, you’ll be able to translate this skill to people in real life, too. 

Strategy 2: Improving Your Communication Skills

No one likes the salesman who just goes on and on about how their product/service is the best thing in the world. They say a lot, but it gets them nowhere. In other words, talking is an illusory form of communication. 

This is a big deal, because when you can communicate well, your words can be very persuasive. And this makes a tangible difference in how many sales you close.

Aim for clarity

Simplify what you are trying to say as much as possible. Then, check for reactions, and focus on those elements that you got a reaction to.

This will help keep your communication crisp and keep your prospect interested.

Make sure you’re being understood

Ask clarifying questions that make sure that what you are saying is coming across the way you want it to. We usually overestimate how much of what we say is understood. The reality is that unless we ask questions, our listeners will understand only little of what we say, and remember even less than that. Noticing what’s sticking makes a big difference. 

Strategy 3: Improving Your Sales Mentality

Needless to say, selling can be tough. You deal with rejection every day. As a matter of fact, it’s a part of your job to be headstrong. So making sure you have the right mindset will help you both make your job easier and more enjoyable.

Get inspired and understand your why

A lot of people have accomplished amazing things and reading about them can certainly be inspiring. Even though your story is completely different from others’, the key thing to remember is that it can help act as a reminder of your why.

Let the past stay in the past

Even though we know that we can’t change what already happened we often have lingering feelings about it. This is where practicing non‑attachment comes in. It’s a skill that helps us let go of the negative emotions we associated in past sales attempts and keep a fresh perspective when a new lead comes in through the door.

Nothing Happens Until You Get the Sale

Oftentimes we don’t focus on what’s important because of what’s urgent. This is usually the case with our self development. We tend to neglect it and as consequence fall into a rut. 

The good news is that if you have the right mindset and pick the right strategy, you’ll bust out of that rut and find yourself getting better in no time. Since you’re in sales, it’s a good idea to remember that getting better at sales quite literally pays off.

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Josh Slone
About Author: Josh Slone
Josh Slone is the Head Content Writer for LeadFuze. Josh writes about lead generation strategies, sales skills, and sales terminology.